and want to know more. Some answers to your questions:
WHAT CAN I EXPECT MY FIRST TIME?
Oh, this will be fun.
After your deposit has been received, you will be emailed details about location and directions.
Our session will begin with a 5-15 minute in-person discussion immediately before beginning our scene to clarify hard limits, interests, and safe words. After we speak and I secure your tribute, we will begin our scene together.
WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS OF ME, MISTRESS? HOW SHOULD I PREPARE?
1. I expect your communication with me to be succinct, respectful, and clear:
I will respond to 1-4 emails to set up our session.
I will conduct an in-person negotiation immediately before beginning our session.
If you would like to chat or text about our session beforehand, you may set up a time to contact me via Niteflirt.
2. I expect your deposit to arrive in full before we finalize the booking.
3. I expect Safe, Sane, Consensual, Risk-Aware Play:
Do not imbibe any substances that would prevent safe, sane, consensual kink.
You must be 18+ and consensual/risk aware.
4. I expect proper hygiene:
Be freshly showered, without heavy cologne, perfume, or laundry detergent scent.
Nails trimmed, teeth clean.
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5. I expect you to communicate clearly to me:
Any and all of your hard limits and boundaries.
If you are permitted marks on your body, and if so where.
- If you are taking any blood thinners or other medications that may be relevant to our session.
What you would most like to experience in our session.
6. I welcome gifts, gratuity, and letters of adoration.
For more advice, some general Dos and Don'ts
HOW LONG OF A SESSION SHOULD I BOOK FOR MY FIRST TIME?
I recommend 1.5 to 2 hours your first session with me, so we will have enough time for a full experience. If you are experienced, would like to play in
DO YOU PLAY WITH...
Transgender and Gender-nonconforming people?
Yes! I play with people of all genders and orientations, including couples and other dominatrices.
WHAT COLOR IS YOUR HAIR? I SEE DIFFERENT HAIR IN DIFFERENT PICTURES...
I change my hair as often as the seasons. Sometimes I enjoy being an icy blonde, other times I crave deep jewel tones that match the wild waters I swim in or the forests I walk through. No matter what my hair looks like in the moment, my teasing smile and bright green eyes will keep your attention occupied.
If you have a specific hair style or color you're looking for, let me know. I love costume requests.
YEAH, BUT ACTUALLY... WHAT'S YOUR REAL HAIR COLOR?
If you're so rigidly concerned about a specific hair color and style, I recommend you finding what you're looking for on this site instead.
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